Cemetery Headstone Rules: What to Check First
The cemetery decides more about a headstone than most families expect. Before choosing a design, call the cemetery office and ask these questions. It takes ten minutes and avoids the most common problem: a stone that is not allowed.
Questions to ask the cemetery
- Which types are allowed in this section: flat only, bevel, slant or upright?
- What is the maximum size (width, depth and height) for this plot? Is it different for a double plot?
- Are there color or material rules, for example gray granite only?
- Do you need to approve the design first? Is there a form to fill in?
- Who sets the stone, and what is the setting or foundation fee?
- How should the stone be delivered, and who receives it?
Why the rules vary
Memorial parks often allow only flat markers so the lawn can be mowed and the grounds look even. Older cemeteries usually allow uprights but may limit their size. Religious cemeteries can have rules about symbols or inscriptions.
How we help
After you order, email us the cemetery's rules or approval form (or reply to your order confirmation). We size the proof to fit, and nothing is engraved until you approve it.
Common questions
What if the cemetery rejects my design?
Because we engrave only after you approve the proof, we can change the size or design to meet the cemetery's rules first. Contact us as soon as you hear from them.
